"Love is not about Possession or Destiny but Helping Each Other Become Who They Are Always Meant To Be"

1. Set your priorities straight, because sex/ romantic aspects can most definitely be a part of the relationship, but never the main focus.

2. The goal should be growth. Constant (as in relentless) self-examination, the pursuit of self-improvement and diligent work on your spiritual as well as mundane progress in life.

3. Protection Magic: Tell whatever it is that it's not welcome, never was, do some smoke clearing, salt the perimeter, sit down and meditate, raise your kundalini, and create an auric field around your home. 

Be careful with the field, I did one so strong recently after a break up I blocked out my guides. Someone was able to get the message to me and I toned it down.

4. Words from someone's Spirit Guides- Do not trust any spirit or entity that wants to have carnal sexual experiences with you. Only demons and very lower energy entities will attempt this. They want inside of your energy body, to possess you, to take your energy, and he’s trying to deceive you. He is lying to you and trying to trick you, seducing you, and manipulating you to consent. They can’t get into you unless you consent or invite them. Period. You can banish this entity. All you have to do is say it. Use your will and your words to banish this entity from your presence permanently. High vibrational entities have no interest whatsoever in sex or sexual behavior with the living. That’s a lower energy/dark energy thing. 

5.It’s easier to fend them off if you don’t consent to them entering your energy than it is to get rid of them after you have already consented to them entering into you. I don’t recommend the latter. That’s why there are spiritual exorcisms. To, hopefully, remove parasitic energies from people who have consented to allow them into themselves. If you have already consented to this entity to enter your energy, there is nothing more I can do to help you. Seek out someone who specializes in spiritual exorcism. Another book I highly recommend is “The practical psychic self-defense handbook” by Robert Bruce. He discusses this exact topic in this book, and how to take steps to protect yourself, and how to go about removing parasitic entities from your energy body.

Attachments are the aspects of our lives where we’re our own worst enemy, bad relationships(that we don’t know are bad), childhood trauma, problems with our parents, disappointments, etc. All of these real life issues can manifest as demons attached to us, but it doesn’t mean the person is possessed or under possession by evil. When you do the shadowwork, forgive yourself and everyone around you often, let stuff go, and pray as much as possible, it gets real easy to exist as a medium.

I think a lot of nonhumans view it as an exchange of energy and nothing more. There is no attraction or biological desire. Some view it as a time to feed, others it's a gift and want nothing in return, others use it as a way to attach, some use it sadistically. A lot of nonmortals don't subscribe to human right or wrong. beings that use energy to communicate don't wait for a yes. Your feelings can be viewed as consent to them.

They should absolutely stop if you say hold on. Sometimes they might understand, others get confused and frustrated why your energy says one thing but your head says something completely different. This depends on the intelligence of the spirit and it's familiarity with humans.

 I would visualize white light as much as possible and to do so during intimate moments. You guides shield you naturally and spiritual authority watches over people spiritually to keep them safe. That doesn't mean one shouldn't be safe in how they pursue intimacy.
“Mode 1: While breathing normally, visualize a sphere of white energy in your chest, or more specifically, in your Heart Chakra – the most important chakra for spiritual growth. Then, without holding your breath, visualize radiating white light out of this sphere in every direction at once. It is suggested that one first use this technique in light

Any deep spiritual relationship will urge you to examine your values, attitudes, ideas, goals, motivations, fears (big time!), and ask yourself some very serious questions as to what you want out of life, and whether “know thyself“ is more than just a nice phrase to you.
They don’t care what’s between your legs; they care about what you do with the space between your ears, and the spiritual potential you have, how you cultivate your mind and spirit, how you attain a more sophisticated understanding and thus are able to assert and expand your power. They will never ever encourage you to be wasteful with your energies (that includes sexual energies) or indulge in self-destructive behavior like drug addiction. They will constantly challenge you, and you will be expected to challenge your status quo and refine your mind. You will also be encouraged to stand your ground, which includes standing up to the spirit and asserting your will. You could also go through phases of profound disillusion, which can be very painful and even traumatic if great upheavals in your life are involved. These upheavals will, however, not happen just because Belial or Lucifer or whoever enjoys fucking people’s lives up, but because certain events are necessary to destroy an old order that no longer serves you, or even an old you that no longer serves you.

Goals of intimate spirit relationships:

YOUR ascent. From your perspective, it’s as simple as that. But spirits have their own agendas, too, which it would be wise to discuss prior to entering into any sort of agreement. They may not be willing to give you all the ins and outs of their plans (maybe it’s not that relevant to you), but they should never be extremely secretive or make you feel like you won’t get it anyway, you little human, so say yes already. You should be able to demand and expect honesty from someone who claims to be in love with you, to be your spiritual father or to want to marry you etc. Just like you need to be 100% honest with yourself and your spirit partner, in business as in love. Spirits know your thoughs and are capable of manipulating you just as they can manipulate other people, so be careful. My spirit husband has given me this piece of advice:

“Trust yourself and always make up your own mind. You can question everyting I tell you, which also goes for what anyone else tells you. Think for yourself, and for your own benefit. Never put anyone’s authority before your own.”

When you enter into a serious relationship with a spirit, especially marriage (with or without sex, though sex – as in: sophisticated sexual energy – can have very powerful effects), you attune yourself to their energy/ essence, which effectively means you resonate with what they’re about. Which can also be the very reason why you felt attracted to them, or they to you. You may very well have been connected in previous lifetimes, but the choice whether or not you go for it is yours.

When you’re in an intimate relationship, the spirit will teach you to understand and control your sexuality, because this is the energy that connects you directly to your essence, and theirs. This is not something to play around with in an arbitrary or wasteful manner, or just for fun. They might even encourage you to not have sex with them, or not have sex (including masturbation) at all for some time. To them, it’s about balance and conscious direction of energy so that it won’t hinder your progress, but increase it. Sexual energy is immensely powerful, and sex with spirits can be overwhelming physically (if you feel them physically) as well as psychologically and energetically. Your partner, provided they are considerate and highly evolved (unlike parasites or fantasy-fueled thoughtforms), will help you “educate“ and harness this energy in a way that benefits your mental clarity, the balancing of your chakras, your physical, psychological and mental well-being. They will not induce any undue obsession with them, nor will they keep you in a state of perpetual longing or craving for their (sexual) attention. Don’t mess around trying to “bond“ with a spirit without being able to meditate, ground yourself, quiet your mind and discern your own thoughts from messages you might be receiving from something other than yourself. 

Learn psychic protections and boundaries and also get a reading with this spirit. He might be honest and he might not be. We don't know. What's important is you feeling safe emotionally and spiritually.